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Think for Yourself

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Today I'd like to post a tribute to Tilman Hausherr, who is a computer programmer who created a program called Xenu's Link Smith (TM) that helps web page developers check for broken links.

http://home.snafu.de/tilman/xenulink.html

I first came across this program in 1999, when I was learning web development and needed a way to check which items were changed between an old version of a web site and a new version of the same website. In doing more research on the program and the creator, I learned about "Operation Clambake" which is the programmer's way to contribute to knowledge and awareness of Scientology.

If you'd like to learn more about this effort, you can visit: http://xenu.net/

Highly recommended: the "Baloney Detection Kit" http://xenu.net/archive/baloney_detection.html, which encourages all of us--- you and me --- to think about any situation, especially any situation which presents arguments or assertions.

Sometimes, baloney is baloney: someone may be lying, telling half-truths, or attempting to manipulate you through confusion or guilt.

Sometimes, someone just wants your money, your soul, your power, and your attention... even I want your attention, through writing this blog!!! If you are in a situation where someone is attempting to control you, if your inner "bullsh*t detector" is warning you, or if you have any intuition or inkling at all about the motivation behind the person trying to control you, STOP, have a look at the evidence and the results, and think for yourself.

No one has the real answers. No one really knows everything. Anyone who tells you they know the ultimate truth is simply another player in the great experiment of life that we are all participating in. They know maybe a little bit more or a little bit less than you, and your experience is just as valid as theirs (maybe you have something to share, if you look at your own experience --- consider looking within instead of seeking knowledge from others all the time!)

  • If someone wants to share the real secret with you (especially for a fee), be very wary ---- are they preying on your emotions?
  • Are they turning up the fear, shame, or anger?
  • Are they pushing your guilt buttons?
  • Are they hinting that you're not currently "acceptable" the way you are, but you could change if you follow their program?

Maybe you don't need that particular person, or group, or individual, or message--- at this particular time. Maybe you never need someone else telling you the right way to behave, think, or act.

The universe is incomprehensibly large. Human beings understand certain things, but not all things.

Many people work to understand and explain our reality. Even here on this website, I talk about dreams, inspiration, achievements, belief, leadership, connection, declarations, and community. But there are many instructors available, not just one "true path."

Include your own conscience, your inner light, and your own truth-telling in the mix --- you have knowledge and skills to share, too. The things that enter into your life become a part of your life, so take your time and be sure you want to allow a new influence into your personal zone. Make sure everything passes your b.s. detector.

Don't give up your critical thinking power to someone else --- you have a brain and unique skills, so use them and Think For Yourself.

 


Visionboard #10: Trust the Universe

One of my favorite meditations is the idea that each of us are simply manifestations of the Universe, and so every experience that we go through, no matter how difficult and terrifying, is still a way for us to learn, expand, grow, and increase our self-knowledge.

This visionboard item is one of my ways to remind myself to place my trust that everything is part of a greater plan, or at least, I can put everything into place and know that there is unity and harmony within all the different chaotic strings and threads of experience and activity.

Visionboard: Trust the Universe


7 Tips to Prevent Bullying

Bully Free Zone, by pointshoot

If you're a mom, mentor, or involved in the classroom, you know the importance of maintaining a decent, respectful, positive, safe, and supportive environment for all students. Bullying can happen to children, teens, and young adults who do not get along well with others, who are "less popular", or who have few to no friends in the school. Also at risk for being bullied are youths with depression or anxiety, and those who have low self esteem. Those especially at risk are LGBT and questioning youth: in one study by Laura Sessions Stepp, "four out of five gay and lesbian students say they don't know one supportive adult at school."



Don't Just Settle - Make it Meaningful, Happy, and Deeply Satisfying

Happy Woman, by sandeep_patil

I am always a proponent of upgrading your lifestyle in as many ways as possible. I believe that for the sake of mental health, sanity, and security, we each deserve to follow our intuition, treat ourselves well, and look after our own best interests. If we focus on continuous improvement and do this naturally every day, with the mindset of being grateful and expressing deep respect for the gift of life, we can incrementally  change our living situation.



7 Valentine's Day Gift Ideas for the Woman Business Owner in your Life

Woman Business Owner, by Jodi Womack

1) Pay for her website domain and hosting
Most small business owners don't think of this precious detail, and if your special lady is in business, this is one of a myriad of other details. Do her a favor and prepay for the next 2-3 years of domain and hosting. You'll get a chance to reassess her existing website details (username and password) and inventory the current situation.

 

2) Get her Quickbooks Online



Evaluating your Savings Needs

Dollar bills, pic by 401k

With the low interest rates available and the challenge of many women to manage their family finances, their business finances, and the changing needs of family - from children going to college to elderly parents needing care, we're finding a great need for education and self-awareness about personal finance options.

A great place to get started learning about finances is Investopedia. You can also learn about personal journeys through blogs like I Will Teach You to Be Rich, Millionaire Mommy Next Door, or Get Rich Slowly.

The beginning of the year is a great time to get organized and review (or start) your savings plan.



Four Totally "Out-of-the-Box" Predictions

Cool place, By Ravenelle

I pride myself on being fairly well-educated and tolerant of diversity.

Here are four completely out-of-the-ordinary ideas I've recently been exposed to. I've had a hard time wrapping my head around each of these, but I think that each is a very early indication of different trends in our modern world, and in terms of a business approach, it would be wise to consider ways to integrate these ideas into your existing business model or your marketable job skills: natural remedies, open source mentality, overall collaboration, and green extreme.

Beyond Natural Remedies

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Wedding Day Planning: Four Steps to Make it Fabulous

Wedding Portrait

The wedding service and vows, your attire, the location of the service and reception, and decorations: if your big day is coming up, start planning for these four items at the very beginning. This will help reduce the stress because, like most brides, you're probably planning a wedding on top of dealing with a full-time job, interacting with family and in-laws, organizing travel arrangements, anticipating special needs for seniors or children, finding ethical rings, deciding on vendors, and fitting everything into your budget.